Lisa Vedernikova divides her private history into two eras: “Before Harry” and “After Harry.”
In advance of Harry, she kept her existence largely to herself, prioritizing her work, she claimed, normally at the expenditure of her social lifetime.
After Harry, she commenced to obtain pleasure in day-to-day acts, like generating dinner. Come evening, she could possibly decide on a wine bar fulfill-up over a memo.
This is all irrespective of the actuality that the extremely very first trade between Ms. Vedernikova, 26, who is the main of workers to the publisher and chairman of The New York Times, A.G. Sulzberger, and Harry Khanna, 35, an unbiased attorney and a voter safety software engineer for the Democratic Nationwide Committee, was, it has to be stated, alternatively uncomfortable.
The few satisfied in November 2017 at an engagement social gathering at Fedora, a cosy cafe in Manhattan’s West Village. (The restaurant closed previous calendar year.) Mr. Khanna observed Ms. Vedernikova standing at the bar. He realized he desired to discuss to her, but he didn’t know what to say. So he mentioned the initial detail that arrived to his thoughts. Unfortunately, it was this sentence: “You feel like you’d be great with personal computers.”
The line “didn’t go more than super effectively,” Ms. Vedernikova mentioned. Their trade was transient. Soon, Ms. Vedernikova wandered elsewhere.
But Mr. Khanna was established. “I just felt like I essential to get to know her superior,” he explained. So, towards the conclude of the night, as Ms. Vedernikova was finding all set to go away, Mr. Khanna gave it 1 additional shot. He asked Ms. Vedernikova no matter whether he could buy her a consume. Her reaction was less than promising.
“I was like, ‘it’s an open bar,’” Ms. Vedernikova recalled.
Still, she agreed to have the drink with Mr. Khanna. Their dialogue roared to lifetime when they received onto the matter of politics. Ms. Vedernikova experienced worked on Hillary Clinton’s 2016 presidential campaign, and she and Mr. Khanna experienced a hearty discussion about regardless of whether Donald Trump would gain re-election in 2020. By the conclusion of the night time, they had exchanged cellular phone numbers.
There was a barrier to their budding relationship: Mr. Khanna lived in San Francisco. He moved there from New York about a calendar year and a fifty percent before, and had only returned to New York for the weekend of the engagement social gathering. So in the months soon after assembly, he and Ms. Vedernikova communicated generally around textual content information.
When Ms. Vedernikova’s birthday arrived at the conclude of November, Mr. Khanna was the initially to textual content her a celebratory concept — even while he was on West Coastline time.
The romantic relationship grew quickly from there. The following January, Mr. Khanna created an justification to stop by New York again. He and Ms. Vedernikova satisfied for supper. When he returned to San Francisco, their regular textual content message exchanges turned into each day mobile phone calls. That March, they traveled with each other to Iceland. They started talking about the plan of Mr. Khanna relocating to New York so they could be collectively, with the objective of an April or Could transfer. Mr. Khanna could not hold out he astonished Ms. Vedernikova by going back to New York in advance of the end of March.
Ahead of he fulfilled Ms. Vedernikova, Mr. Khanna experienced been prepared to set New York City behind him. He experienced been employed at a law company there, and experienced developed weary of “working 100 hours a week and heading to the handful of eating places in the Money District over and in excess of.” When he moved back to be with Ms. Vedernikova, he mentioned, she launched him to a “whole new magic of the metropolis.” The pair was engaged at the starting of March 2020. They committed to a March 2021 wedding, which they caught with even as it became apparent that they would have to approach about the pandemic. “At some place we just had to say, ‘this is the one constant in an really uncertain approach,’” Ms. Vedernikova stated.
They in the end held a socially distanced ceremony with about 40 company on March 13 at the Gurdwara Mata Sahib Kaur, a Sikh temple in Glen Cove, N.Y. Bhai Paramjit Singh led a standard Sikh ceremony, which was familiar to Mr. Khanna, but was a new experience for Ms. Vedernikova.
“The very first Indian wedding day I experienced at any time been to,” she said, “was my own.”